#FathersDay #Fail, the churches are failing. Bring back the #Caveman

Churches aren't helping fathers be men
Father’s day fail

The churches are failing fathers because they have lost the concept of masculinity.

When Paul was converted on the road to Damascus, he began preaching Jesus in the marketplace.  He made the unconverted Jews so angry that they attempted to kill him.  Today, if a man preaches Christ this way he will be informed that he is not be “seeker-friendly”

When Peter was working out on the fishing boat after the Resurrection he worked naked.  Today he would be arrested and put on the sex-offender list.

When Abner sent David an invitation to be King of Israel, David told him to return the wife that was given to another man.  He went to war to keep the woman that was his.  Today, he would be denounced as a brute.

When Solomon was inspired to write a Song of Love, he made no secret of his erotic desire.  He publicly described his sexual acts.  He proclaimed how much he liked her naked body.   He talked about her nudity in detail.  He detailed his masturbation. Today he would be called a pornographer and banished to the sinful alleys of the internet.

Today, Christians expect a man to listen to his wife instead of lead his family; to play with his children instead of instruct them; to romance his wife instead of have sex with her; to play soccer instead of hockey; to drink soft drinks instead of beer.  To compromise instead of fight for what is his.

None of these things are bad.  They are just not MASCULINE.  Masculinity is not always the best thing, but it is half of the best thing.  It is the half of humanity that God created to express.  It is the half that is usually expressed by men.

No man is perfectly masculine.   I, personally, never hunt.  Frankly, I would rather quilt.   I happen to be pretty good at listening(I’m a psychiatrist, after all).   But I also have no fear of standing my ground on an issue if I stand all alone.  I have often, like, Shammah the son of Agee, stood in the patch of lentils and defend it when everyone else fled.

The point I am making is not that every man has to act like a cave man.  But the skills that make a good cave man ought to be encouraged

The skills of a caveman need to be encouraged
The Masculine Man

Here’s someone else who thinks like I do.

 

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