It is frustrating that this article is a surrender to both sides of the masculinity debate.
On the onside, we have boys being told to “not treat girls like sex objects.”
Hate to tell you this, but the reason that boys treat girls like sex objects is because they have cojones. Until we create a race of people who sexless men, boys will always use the nearest girl for his masturbatory fantasy. The horror of expecting boys to not think about girls as sex objects is happening on both sides of the “culture war”. James Dobson expect boys to jerk off without thinking girls. On the other side, the Social Justice Warriors want boys to not be boys at all, but little eunuchs who only provide sperm down at the bank for properly informed lesbian couples to use to create “Heather has two mommies” properly socialized families.
On the other side, boys are allows to use terms like “THOT” (that ho over there) because they are not being taught that you can sexually desire a female and still treat her with respect.
I don’t know about you, but I think Jesse Jane, Carter Cruise, and Riley Reid (if you don’t want to look at nekkid women, don’t do a google search on those names) deserve to be treated with respect just like my wife and daughter. My Mama taught me never to use insulting terms about ANY woman.
To love and erotically desire women and still treat them with respect is the essence of masculinity.