Despite the wild interpretations of Matt 5:28. God never intended men to not look at women erotically. “Be Angry and Sin Not” is an equivalent statement to “Look but don’t touch”
Because we gave the territory of erotic desire over to Larry Flynt and Hugh Hefner, the erotica industry is populated only with people promoting lust, licentiousness, adultery and fornication. But it shouldn’t be so. There ought to be thousands of internet sites that are filled with Christian married couples making beautiful sex tapes which other single people and married couples can view. There is no command in the Bible for the prudishness foisted on us by our Victorian ancestors. The Bible commands us to flee fornication and flee youthful lusts. But that doesn’t mean that a young man should flee sexual desire. In fact, if a young man does not have strong sexual urges, he needs to visit a psychiatrist (like me 🙂 to find out what is wrong. That desire is what leads him to seek a wife and become a responsible husband.
Take back erotica. Look at sites like HolyErotica and start some sites of your own. Make some holy sex tapes and share them, or sell them. Take back sex from the lust-peddlers.