Col 3:20 Wherefore if ye be dead with Christ from the rudiments of the world, why, as though living in the world, are ye subject to ordinances, (Touch not; taste not; handle not; Which all are to perish with the using;) after the commandments and doctrines of men? Which things have indeed a shew of wisdom in will worship, and humility, and neglecting of the body; not in any honour to the satisfying of the flesh.
The evangelical world is so consumed with making new commandments to destroy masculinity, that they cannot seem to concentrate on preaching things like the gospel of Jesus.
The commandment to not look at erotica, read about sex , or enjoy nude women comes from men and not from God. The Bible is full of positive descriptions of sex and nude women. Nudity was common in the ancient world. Christians were nude in public when they were baptized. Peter was nude when he worked. The ladies that Paul preached to at the river were naked while they washed their clothes (poor people didn’t have multiple sets of clothing). Slaves were naked and “ashamed” of their nudity not because of sexual modesty but simply for their poverty. No one had a problem with this hatred of sex.
The early church preached strongly again fornication. Jesus and the disciples expected men to be faithful in their actions and in their minds. Christian men didn’t seek opportunities (or desire to seek opportunities) to cheat. But neither were they expected to never think about sex or look at the abundant erotic art that surrounded them. The rich people were not commanded to strip the erotic murals from their houses. (Check out the pictures from the ruins of Pompeii)
Seek those things which are above. Stop digging around to find something holy and natural with which to condemn your brethren.